Because there are just times when you need to transfer yourself to a different place. Whether the reason for that happens to be legit or just because you wanted a new place to be at, it would not matter. As long as you change the place, it is all good for morale. So go ahead and get started on office moving in California.
We guess this could apply to move to a different home too. It all really involves the act of removing yourself from one place and be put in another. Somewhere either far or near to the original place, as long as it is not the same place then it applies.
To us, removing oneself from the original home would mean tearing yourself away from the people you have been relying on for too long. And good riddance, really. No offense to all parent out there because we know al parents are different from one another, but some of your parenting skills are just, for the lack of a better word.
You are not raising an investment, by the way. You are raising your very own child and you should not be controlling them on whatever they want to become when they are finally adults like you. No one likes to be controlled. Not even children.
Is it really a wonder why your kids want to leave your home and start living off on their own? Because they really do not want to be trapped in the same thing all over again. They want to be free to choose whatever they want and live however they want to. It is their life and not even you can take a hold of that.
Parents do not have that kind of hold to their kids. How would you like it if your own parents had been like that to you, huh? Personally, we really hate overbearing parents and how they can just take away the things that made them happy. Especially when they judge it based on their own crappy opinions.
If your kid wants to become a singer then you should at least give them a chance. Maybe they are actually good at it, you know? If you ARE going to support that, then try hard on not becoming their managers. Because nothing is worse than having your very own parent as your manager.
It sucks for the kid and newsflash, no one wants you. And in the case of seeing your own kid move his office to a different place, well, this does not really concern you any more, does it? let them live their life and stop telling them what to do. For that matter, stop asking them for money all the goddamn time whenever they visit.
You have your own jobs, pension money, and retirement plans, right? And if you do not want to end up in a senior home then stop being such hard to your kids and actually support them on what they want to do. And even if their wants will cause them to fall then let them. They have to learn the lesson of the world their own way anyway.